Should Your Man Pay for You and Your Friends' Tab?

Should your man pay for you and your friends’ tab? Well, according to the internet, apparently so.

Recently, a TikTok video of a woman upset with her boyfriend after he opted not to foot the dinner bill for her homegirls went viral.

The clip, originally uploaded by user @viccgotti, shows the young lady and a group of other ladies standing in the parking lot of the establishment at her birthday dinner.

Following her dude’s refusal to cover the restaurant fee for her eighteen-member crew’s (literally) food, she grows agitated and sparks up an argument with him.

While many in the comments believed the TikTok to be a skit, it’s still a topic that has been in conversation around the social media skreets for quite some time.

Some think it’s reasonable, most think it’s absurd.

Of course, the video has since hit Twitter, and the blue app birdies have had their fair share of opinions on the situation.

Here’s their take on it…

I’ll be damned, am I Red Cross

— ldot🇯🇲 (@NubianCancer87) July 16, 2022

Jesus didn’t bring 18 man to the last supper

— Greatness Patrón 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬 (@chisolifts) July 16, 2022

If it was 2/3 friends I would’ve done it but 18?! Tell them to bring out their Barclays or Apple Pay cos that’s a Pisstake

— Tony Soprano (@SVCarbaholic) July 16, 2022

we need to stop having thoughts on things like this brother. Reasonable adults with act like reasonable adults and unserious people will act like unserious people.

— Marlu Da Kang (@NotTheWave) July 16, 2022

I don’t think he should have paid for all of her friends to eat , only her because that’s his girl and it’s her birthday . I wouldn’t expect my bf to do that tbh

— Killy K “no one makes it out alive so ..” (@killy8182) July 16, 2022

She’s taking the piss… she brought all those girls to be paid for?? 🙃
The birthday girl is the only one who shouldn’t be paying, the rest of us are splitting the bill 😌

— Martin Lee Grant (@Mar10LG) July 16, 2022

She’s mad. She invited them so she should have paid if it was that deep for her.

— Zara… Gingam (@zeeskititi) July 16, 2022

You can’t bring 8 other friends and expect me to pay for them, I’m not their man, unless it was established before the dinner that it’s on me.

— BRANDON💫 (@BrandonsNotNice) July 16, 2022

I’m not even arguing after “broke nikka” I’m not the target market… I’m leaving!.

— Nate. (@_Forty_K) July 16, 2022

even children’s party doesn’t host this number of people

— انقذني (@Tbag__1) July 16, 2022

How tf do you have 18 close friends

— Richmond owusu (@kofiadom__) July 16, 2022

I would’ve left long time he’s good to be standing there entertaining that

— Jays Legacy 🇯🇲 (@JaysLegaccy) July 16, 2022

how did he get in a relationship with this kind of woman in the first place 🤦🏽‍♂️

— Miami Jay (@Jay14Miami) July 16, 2022

I ain’t even gon argue with her I just leave I got no time for drama

— Justice.Mensah (@Asap001_) July 16, 2022

How is she having 18 friends? I can’t even maintain 1.

— June Mummy 🎊🥳 (@Sesilicious3) July 16, 2022

She came along with 18 friends including herself adding up to 19. Wtf did she expect the guy to do?

Hell no! Her guy isn’t going to pay for their bills & I support his decision. ALPHA MALE.🙃🤝😭

— AccraGuy 🇬🇭 (@AccraGuyy) July 17, 2022

I don’t think a guy need to key in to alpha male to know that the right thing to do is to walk away immediately he spotted 18 seater bus dropping some homeless women next to his table 🚎 . He could have said ✌🏿bye 👋

— Austin (@Austin75047722) July 17, 2022

Sometimes men wouldve to be careful with curvy ladies, most of them have their common sense in their buttocks.

— Kick NPP/NDC OUT (@nppndcout) July 17, 2022

I realise that. A lot of pretty gals actually. Probably cos they’ve always had their way. Little resistance and they become trashy

— Ghana’ba (@i_am_Bernie_) July 17, 2022

sis was really looking forward to some free food dkm pic.twitter.com/XG4pVkwjZ1

— انقذني (@Tbag__1) July 17, 2022

why u gon bring 18 people to your birthday dinner and expect your boyfriend to pay for all of https://t.co/gJIgIYeMRH you really love the boy?

— Moses alabore (@MosesAlabore) July 17, 2022

He’s even talking too much just walk out my nigga

— Big PAPI❤️ (@Ace_princ) July 17, 2022

She carry 18 women come dinner like it’s a premier league matchday squad😂😂😂

— ʍʀ աɛʍs 🎭🇬🇭 (@mr_wemz) July 17, 2022

Can’t pay for your own food but calling someone else broke🤣 pic.twitter.com/Po5FaJnyXP

— lil haiti babe🇭🇹 (@Edmondo__Alexis) July 17, 2022

It’s her birthday, was he expecting her to celebrate alone? If so why didn’t he tel her that earlier that just both of them are to hangout together ?

— 30card (@Drsood6) July 17, 2022

My girlfriend and I have our birthdays 5days apart. When it was hers, I told her I wanted to hangout with her. She came alone. 5 days after it was mine, she reciprocated and I went alone. If we wanted a party we would have said bring friends along. It’s as simple

— EAT (@kofi_tekpor) July 17, 2022

Wait it her birthday though

He should have expected to spend more
Why would u take me out on my birthday with my friends
And not pay for my food even my friends???

That’s wacky

— Angela (@Angies8090) July 17, 2022

Did she say “nobody wants a broke negga?” Is he dating u or ur friends inclusive. This girl doesn’t love the guy. Man has to flee… She is mad.

— SIR. David WalkerSackcess➕ (@SirDavid_Walker) July 17, 2022